12/10/24

Spicy Take: Stop Having Business FOMO

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We all know that feeling—you’re scrolling through Instagram, admiring someone’s gorgeous rebrand or their picture-perfect launch, and suddenly, your own business feels… not quite enough.

I see it all the time. Creatives caught up in the urgency of “keeping up,” rushing to refresh their brand, website, or offers in an effort to stay relevant. And I get it. It’s easy to feel like if you don’t move fast, you’ll somehow fall behind.

But here’s the truth (shared with so much love): if you’re in a rush for something, you might not be ready for it.

Let’s sit with that for a moment.

spicy take - stop having business FOMO

Why Rushing Your Brand Rarely Works

When branding or website design becomes a quick fix, it’s like building your dream business on shifting sand. It might look beautiful at first, but as soon as the tide of real business challenges rolls in, it won’t hold.

A sustainable business requires slow, intentional growth. Because if your dream feels like a nightmare to attain—and worse, to maintain—then maybe it’s not actually your dream.

That rebrand your business bestie just launched? It works for her because it was built for her. Borrowing someone else’s strategy, aesthetic, or timeline won’t lead to the same result. Your dream deserves a foundation built on what’s right for you, not what’s trending.

FOMO Isn’t Fuel—It’s a Distraction

Business FOMO can feel like motivation, but more often than not, it’s just urgency in disguise. It sparks a fire, sure, but one that burns out fast, leaving you exhausted rather than energized.

Instead of chasing the next “must-have” thing, take a moment to check in with yourself:

  • What part of your business feels out of alignment?
  • Are your offers, clients, or creative direction truly fulfilling?
  • Has your vision shifted in a way you haven’t fully acknowledged yet?

De-Influencing: Breaking the Cycle of “Should”

This might be a little spicy, but here it goes:

  • You don’t need to launch something every quarter.
  • You don’t need another “value-packed” freebie just because it’s trendy.
  • You don’t need to mimic someone else’s success project.

If these things light you up, great! But if they’re just adding noise or pressure? It may be time to pause and reflect.

Instead, try to:

  • Step away from the noise: If scrolling makes you question your own path, take a break. Clarity often comes in quiet moments.
  • Trust your own timing: The best businesses aren’t built overnight. They’re shaped by thoughtful, intentional choices.
  • Remember, you’re only seeing the highlight reel: Every business owner has moments of doubt, pivots, and slow seasons. Your journey is unfolding exactly as it should.

If no one has told you this today: you’re exactly where you need to be. Your business doesn’t need to be rushed, reworked, or molded into someone else’s version of success.

There’s beauty in slowness. In deep, sustainable growth. In allowing yourself to evolve at your own pace.

And if you need a reminder along the way? I’m always here. 🤍

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